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I'm (26M) uncomfortable with my girlfriend (21F) touching and being touched by her gay friends, is this reasonable?

2021.04.19 07:45 7daysaweekforlife I'm (26M) uncomfortable with my girlfriend (21F) touching and being touched by her gay friends, is this reasonable?

For some context, we have been together for 10 months and early in the relationship my gf would constantly talk about things that made me uncomfortable without any real care about how it affected me. For instance she would often tell me in detail her past sexual experiences and talked about her ex almost daily (first real bf, together for 3 years). At the time it made me worry if she wasn't truly over her ex or if she still missed hooking up with guys. I know realise she only told me these things because she wanted me to know everything about her and she would like to know the same about me. The issue here is I reacted very immaturely to it and instead of calmly telling her that im not comfortable with it I did everything from acting jealous to acting being passive aggressive and having huge over the top blame-sessions to her which only pissed her off and didnt make her see my point.
Fast forward to today I understand it better and I dont hold any grudges to her, though I think is she very careless this is really one of her only flaws and ive decided all her amazing traits make up for it and I can live with it.
Her main friend group is a very big social group of gay men and we often party together and go out to gay nightclubs (I am straight). Last time we went out one of her guy friends decided to have some phone and try jokingly make me jealous. He grabbed her hand and put it against his crotch while they were dancing and later on in the night he was shirtless and flexing his muscles and her hand darted across and she stroked his abs. I immediately told her that I feel disrespected and that she shouldn't do anything with a guy that I cant do with a girl. She was extremely defensive, and we had an enormous fight and eventually she admitted she knew it would bother me a little bit but she did it anyway. There are two things that really bothered me. One, it hurt to see my beloved gf so easily touch another mans abs even if he was the gayest man ive ever met, it made me feel like if she could do that so easily she could probably do it to another guy easily too. Secondly, I felt like she didnt care about whether it would bother me and she doesn't respect the fact that its beyond my boundaries.
I know deep down it was just some harmless fun for a laugh, but at the same time i feel embarrassed and humiliated. Do I have a right to say that its not ok for her to be physical with her gay friends or am I being too controlling?
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2021.04.19 07:45 CraftedGamer0531 Reaper theory for OW2

I believe it's always been quite the mystery, what exactly happened to Reaper, and why he joined Talon. I've always had an idea and I thought it interesting, figured it share here.
So, Overwatch truly collapsed from within. Gabriel Reyes and Jack Morrison had a falling out, and the Overwatch HQ in Switzerland was destroyed, with both Reyes and Morrison assumed dead. Reyes was resurrected, half-dead, half-alive as the "Reaper" and Morrison survived, living life as a fugitive as "Soldier: 76". According to the Mercy "Valkyrie" short story, it was a mystery who exactly attacked the Overwatch HQ. Maybe Talon? That wouldn't fit with my theory, but is probably the most realistic answer. Anyway, Morrison is still trying to figure out what happened, with Ana, according to the Valkyrie short story.
But why would Reyes join Talon? He never liked them when he was a member of Overwatch/Blackwatch. I always thought he believed Morrison and the rest of OW were too soft on "bad guys" -- according to dialogue, he killed Antonio, that guy in Retribution, because just locking him up only for him to escape/regain power again is pointless, and for what, just so Overwatch can save face and come off as moral? No causalities, just for him to break out and cause more anyway? So he did the "right" thing, broke the rules, saved everyone's time and resources, and killed him.
Clearly we see how Reyes thinks, and we can kinda see how he goes down the path to villainy. He's willing to make questionable compromises for the greater good that many find immoral. But where does that mean "Flipping sides completely and joining Talon"? Granted, Reyes clearly has no respect for Overwatch by the time it falls out, and by the time he becomes Reaper he's totally content with the idea of his Talon associates or himself killing Overwatch members -- his old friends -- but he never had any respect for Talon either. And since when did Reaper show any interest in Talon's idea of "evolving humanity through conflict" anyway? Hmmm.
Personally, while I do think Reaper is clearly in the wrong in the present -- killing innocent guards and people in several animatics/stories we see him in, I do think he has an ulterior motive. Reaper "comes back" from the dead, although half-living, really, completely disfigured. Seems like the perfect opportunity to infiltrate an enemy operation from within? This "Reaper", totally NOT former Blackwatch agent Gabriel Reyes (because he couldn't turn into a ghost and stuff!), joins Talon, works his way up, gathering intel, working with other Talon agents he clearly has no common interest with (at least based on his past) to eventually shut it down himself. Totally fits with the, "willing to make questionable compromises for the greater good that many find immoral" precedent that has already been set.
Does this suddenly, magically, make him a hero? No, of course not, he still kills, steals and destroys for Talon, but as we've seen, Reyes' morality has always been twisted. To him, especially by the time he becomes Reaper, the ends justify the means.
I like to think, as a mirror to Morrison, they both never forgot the mission. But Morrison has gone full Captain America Nomad mode, still doing good despite being a fugitive (despite giving up on the Overwatch idea) while Reyes, still devastated by the Switzerland attack, uses himself and his new abilities as a tool to fake moustache-twirling bad guy status, infiltrate Talon, play the part, be a bad guy, and do awful things, all to cave them in from inside. He's still clearly a bad guy, he still hurts people, but is doing the wrong things for the right reasons. He never stopped being Reyes, just like how Soldier: 76 deep down never stopped being Commander Morrison.
Clearly Reyes still hates Overwatch too. He was absolutely about to blow a hole in Winston's head in the Recall animatic, and likely would do the same to Soldier, Ana, Mercy, etc. any old friends of his. But, I like to think he walks the line between pure evil and pure good -- more on the evil side, but still.
What this does: - gives Reyes/Reaper a more complex arc than "he turned evil and now he's bad"
- Continues what was set up from his past in a realistic way. He certainly still takes a downward path into villainy, which I like, again, as a mirror to Morrison, but not in such a cartoonish way.
- Gives an opportunity for Reaper to join up with the team in Overwatch 2! Perhaps he gets outed by Talon (maybe Sombra finds out and leaks it to Talon?) and is forced to work with Overwatch - "The enemy is my enemy" type deal. The dialogue between him and Overwatch would be sad, funny, and interesting (to me at least), and would give him an opportunity to be playable with the Overwatch agents in the story missions!
- Would give an interesting response to the "edgelord Reaper" memes. He's peacocking! It's a front to seem super duper evil for Talon.
TL;DR : Reaper is a bad guy, but the reason why he joined Talon is to shut it down from within. He never liked Talon and was never going to. While he still resents and hates Overwatch now, a part of him is still carrying on the Overwatch mission by working with Talon to gather intel to destroy it from inside. This gives him an opportunity to work with the Overwatch heroes in OW2!
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I have found a good way to work around pop growth caps.
The year is 2560 ish btw.
Build a sector full of habitats and colonise them.
Strip all but the minimum pops from the sector .
Release the sector as a vassel.
Bonus help if its compleatly surrounded by your empire so cannot get attacked.
Wait a few years (I did 40).
It helps. A bit.
Sorry for the formatting. I'm on mobile.
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