2021.06.14 15:26 optimusjester What makes BW so busted in peoples eyes?
2021.06.14 15:26 ILOVEGAMES153 scare man
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2021.06.14 15:26 throwawayzv Do I continue to fight? Custody / parenting decisions
Married 13 years, together 17. 2 kids ages 10 and 13 we share 50/50. I pay child support because my income is higher than his. We separated 2 years ago (he gave me an STD that led to PID) but I fell for his love bombing and "change" and we reconciled.
Separated again 7 months ago after he forced himself on me and said if I didn't stay with him forever, he was leaving. I let him go but even after he left, the cognitive dissonance was real and I thought there was something wrong with me because my feelings didn't come fully back and that I lost the love of my life. Then he dropped the bomb that he met someone "weeks" after leaving and wanted the kids to meet her, move in with her, etc. etc. The trauma bond made me want to get back with him, he pretended he wanted to while juggling us both, and then finally the lightbulb went off and I manufactured a way for him to reject me and choose her. Since then, his behaviour has gotten worse and it's been horribly tense.
I never intended to get lawyers involved in my situation but a couple months ago, I let my ex know that my income was changing (closer to his) and as per our homemade separation agreement, I'd be cutting child support in half to match the calculator amount.
He didn't like that and said he'd take me to court. At the same time, for months my girls had been asking to stay here an extra day per week (65/35) and he always refused. It was getting to the point where the youngest one was having full-on meltdowns and the oldest was sitting in her bed refusing to get ready. One day she just decided not to go and it was a whole thing. There are some superficial reasons they don't want to be with him half the time, but there are other valid reasons too like his treatment of the oldest (who both children have come to me separately about).
So I hired a lawyer and we sent him a proposal email asking for more custody but still offering to pay him child support as it wasn't financially motivated. He freaked out and hired his own lawyer, asking for a full financial disclosure and threatening to come after the condo I bought with money I saved during the first separation.
I'm actually glad the equalization he's demanding is happening because it's likely he will walk away with very little or have to owe me due to his pension. And his behaviour since it started opened my eyes to the fact that delaying the divorce (trauma bond) is not a good idea.
But I honestly don't care about the financial stuff, I just want what's best for the kids. On top of the custody situation, he is now blocking anything I request or decisions we need to make for the kids, trying to enforce a parenting coordinator saying it's dangerous of me to let the kids "be in control and make decisions". My lawyer has countered (because I don't want to be in the same room as him and watch him charm another therapist/counsellor) and is pushing for a "voice of the child" report to hopefully get his side to budge a bit on these various issues.
For example my youngest wants to switch schools and it's not like I'd say yes just cuz she said so, but because he's said verbally 3 times recently he's moving them in with this other woman outside of the school district, it makes sense for her to start over now vs. into the school year. But to the lawyers he claims he has no plans to do that and will wait until our agreement is done and then do what he wants.
So I'm just super frustrated by how long and expensive things are getting. I've already spent $5K and it feels like I'm nowhere. My kids seem a little happier but only because they know we are "working on a solution" so I think they hope it'll work out the way they want. But if he rejects the voice of the child report, I don't even know how to proceed from there. My lawyer said there's no point in court because even though the children will have a strong say given their age and the past abuse is a factor, it could take up to 2 years to get there and by then my oldest will be 15 and can do what she wants anyway. I'm afraid of mediation because he's so charming and manipulative.
Any tips / advice on how I should proceed? I'm so scared and confused and frustrated. Thank you!
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2021.06.14 15:26 IAMBEST16 People who became rich overnight what's your story?
2021.06.14 15:26 sidd-_007 Very Rare but Yes
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2021.06.14 15:26 eliteprephistory Brave fawn
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2021.06.14 15:26 The_Plantefar Pokemon go spillere i Aalborg
Min kæreste og jeg er begyndt at spille Pokémon go, for at komme ud og gå nogle ture, det går rigtig godt men vi kunne godt tænke os flere virtuelle venner og droppe vores gifts af ved.
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2021.06.14 15:26 deadshot844 I am trying to make my own deck and is it possible I can send my ideas to Kazuki Takahashi??
2021.06.14 15:26 SafeMoonXPost Together to the Moon!!! [X-post from /r/SafeMoon]
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2021.06.14 15:26 AcquafrescaSvent Tendran algo de ella? Era de venus pero no recuerdo su nombre
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2021.06.14 15:26 SarcasticWeirdo Samsung s10 moisture detected and wont turn on or charge.
So i tried leaving it to dry next to the window and put it in rice for more than 24 hours, the phone wasn't exposed to water but probably a bit of rain got into the charging port? Its been 3 days now and i don't know what to do. At first it didn't charge at all while it was being used, no message that its charging while plugged in then after a day it was off and while plugged in it said moisture detected and went off again.
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2021.06.14 15:26 KitBane First week of living in Croatia! let me know what I can do to improve our vlogs :)
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2021.06.14 15:26 tajarhina Spaniards in the 17th/18th century be like:
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2021.06.14 15:26 Cryptorobin21 DOGGYSWAP
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2021.06.14 15:26 CommanderMiller Season 15 is coming to an end
| Survivors, Season 15 is slowly but surely coming to an end with a single week separating its finale. You can use this time to complete the remaining tasks, earn more awards, and hang out in the bar.|
By the way, if you are a fan of the Metal Cutter and would like to see them more often on stage, this info could be useful for you – each their gig starts 15 minutes after the ending of the previous one.
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2021.06.14 15:26 honey_revenge11 Carly with her morning runs, Saturday & Sunday...
Did anyone else catch this on her instagram story? I'm just trying to figure out why she thinks its okay for Madi to be obese but not herself... Why is she out running? To lose weight/ get in shape? OR does she just love running? And that's not even sarcasm, I happen to love running...running saved my life when I had postpartum depression, that was my release.
Okay writing up this post, I just remembered, u/No_Emergency7803 posted the two pictures side by side a week ago of Carly holding Madi and then Carly holding Ellie around the same age...but in the one where she's holding Ellie, she has a number on from a marathon/ race...
So she does love running? Physical activity? I'm so confused on how a person that runs can over feed their baby to the point of immobility!!!
food for thought
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2021.06.14 15:26 WeekendAtSternies Bumble Bee, A6600, Sony E 70-350mm f/4.5-6.3 G OSS @244mm
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2021.06.14 15:26 javalono1992 LeClerc spotted stateside.
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2021.06.14 15:26 mylinux2 NetGear AC1200 A6210 Driver Fedora 30 Installation
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2021.06.14 15:26 topstocktips $TRCH no shares to short left, shorts are done over 500k shorted by $3 and 15 mill+ shares short total.
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2021.06.14 15:26 hackintosh-expert [SUCCESS] BIG SUR Installed • Laptop – HP ENVY 17 • i7-4720HQ • HD4600 💙 + EFI
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2021.06.14 15:26 MarksmanRifle updated, FA+TA for gamestop.
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2021.06.14 15:26 renegadeoff juice x polo, wyt?
2021.06.14 15:26 chiron42 Am I missing something or could researching for possible university to apply to be a full time job?
I missed the application deadline for the program i intended to join so I'm looking elsewhere and bruh, there's so much just crap to wade through and read and stuff to even know what courses are about and what's expected of you and entry requirements.
I'm in Europe and looking at European countries and they don't even make it obvious what language abilities are expected of you.
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2021.06.14 15:26 smooth_grooves Focus playlist of instrumentals with enough energy to keep you motivated without being distracting, featuring the vaporwave aesthetic sounds of 80s-90s era smooth jazz, fusion and new age music. Best of luck with your studies!
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