[WTB] CMT 11.5 M Lok rail (OR)
2021.08.01 03:09 Tytar [WTB] CMT 11.5 M Lok rail (OR)
Looking an 11.5 HDM (or a take off from an IWI 12.5)
$100 - $140
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2021.08.01 03:09 ta34562986 Am I being irrational... or is my spouse abusing alcohol?
Sorry if this becomes long. Also, throwaway account.
I need advice badly. I need to know if I'm being ridiculous or if my spouse is technically abusing at this point. Here’s a bit of background:
- He’s a veteran, has been on numerous combat tours and spent quite a few years total in country. So, he’s already led a life of heavy binge drinking and heavy social drinking, as is that culture. We have been together for 6.5 years but have known each other and been friends for upwards of 10 years now.
- A few years ago he hurt his back (herniated + bulged discs) and the VA has been very slow at getting it fixed. This has led his PTSD and depression to become worse. He’s gained weight because he can’t work out… leading to increased depression. He can’t get a job because of his constant back pain… leading to even more depression. We live in an expensive state and can’t afford to do anything because he can’t work and make money… and I’m a current med student so I can’t work… you get the picture. It is an endless cycle of boredom and brokedom for us, especially for him.
I’ve never really noticed a huge problem until the last 1.5-2 years. The drinking has increased. He’s never been blackout drunk or gotten there, mainly because I believe his tolerance is so high from the constant consumption. If
he tends to buy a 750mL of fireball… it’ll be gone by the end of the evening (we usually go to bed between 9-10pm). And/or he will wake up and grab a drink or a couple shots of fireball by 11am. He usually ends up having close to 5-6 shots of fireball within an hour's time.
He’s had a few outbursts towards my family (we currently live with my parents due to our lack of being able to make money/live in an expensive state) that had major repercussions towards him and I, but only 2-3 times has this happened and it's always been solved. He’s never become (or shown signs of becoming) physically violent with me, but does get irritated/agitated when I mention he drinks too much… which has practically been daily or every other day at this point. So whenever I bring up the drinking… or say “you need to eat” he gets irritated at me. I am constantly irritated at him for drinking either a) so early, b) so much so fast, or c) a combination of both.
Today, he bought a couple cases of whiteclaw (one for me and one for him)… and I’m assuming he bought those stupid little 10packs of fireball shots as well. He started around 12pm and was drunk by 3pm. He’s currently in a “drunk-nap” and hasn’t eaten the lunch/dinner he cooked for all of us.
I don’t like his personality or behavior while drinking anymore. He’s extremely annoying and talks a lot
. His fireball breath has become increasingly repulsive to me. All in all… I don’t even want to be around him when he drinks at home. He knows I get agitated at him. Yet every time I bring anything up it gets turned around on me…:
- “You drink daily” – which I don’t, and if I drink at home I usually only have 3-4 drinks… over a period of hours when I do. I never get drunk from it.
- “Your dad drinks every day, and it doesn’t seem to be a problem” – Yes he does. He has 1-2 drinks a morning with liquor in his coffee, and may or may not have more in his coffee in the evening, another 1-2. But he never gets drunk off of it.
I mention these things and he takes it like I’m being all “high and mighty” on him and that we’re just different people. He states he drinks because he’s bored and there’s nothing else to do and it’s the one thing that can help him get through his days from his PTSD issues to his constant back pain (okay, I can understand that - to an extent
I honestly feel like I don’t know what to do anymore. He just binges. He doesn’t stop himself from getting drunk. He can’t just seem to have a couple or a few drinks and call it quits. The only time he doesn’t drink is when he runs out of money 2.5 to 3 weeks into the month, and I’m increasingly refusing to buy him alcohol, to the point where I'm going to tell him if he runs out of money I'm not helping him with anything and that he needs to learn to budget better or buy less alcohol.
Am I being harsh? Am I being unreasonable by nagging at him all the time? I can tell I’m growing more and more resentful towards him even though he doesn’t do anything bad except for getting drunk. He really doesn’t. He doesn’t argue with me, he doesn’t try to cause problems (anymore). He just honestly annoys me and talks so freaking much (
I'm an introvert and get overwhelmed when he talks that much)
. Since he isn’t doing anything wrong it makes me question myself and how I act towards him when he drinks and I don’t want to be considered as controlling by telling him to stop drinking... I just want him to drink less and not always get drunk.
I’m getting to the point where I just keep repeating myself to him, and when he asks me what’s wrong because my attitude and body language changes he knows damn well what is bothering me and I just don’t say anything anymore. He refuses to see that it’s become a problem because in his mind he’s not doing anything bad… and he’s honestly not.
I don’t know how to approach this situation gently. I’m close to telling him that being with a drunk is not going to be a part of my future. Giving him an “ultimatum-like” statement without it being a real ultimatum. I’ve looked up stages of alcoholism and he doesn’t really fit anything other than “binge drinks daily to every other day”. He’s not the type to seek therapy or group-help, stating that it doesn’t work for him. And I get that, therapy doesn’t work or help everyone.
But part of me understands and feels like I continue to make excuses… and I don’t want to be an enabler.
Please help me how to tackle this situation as gently and calmly as I can. I don’t know how to respond with a lot of stuff he retorts with, because it usually all makes sense and I really have no answer for whatever he says.
Again… I’m sorry for this being so longwinded, but I’m desperate because I feel like he's not a normal "drunk"... if that makes sense.
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- What does the storage look like (closets drawers, etc)
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Since Covid, my team is all working remotely. Thou everyone has good internet speed, sometimes network fluctuations happen and I'm trying to find ways to prevent a drop in voice quality.
How can I configure GSWave to work on the lowest internet speed with good quality sound?
Note: GSWave connects to my Private FreePBX server hosted on a VPS.
As the 1st step in this direction, I've disabled all Codecs in GSWave & enabled only G729. I assume this is the right step.
What else can I do to operate at the lowest possible bandwidth without a drop in sound quality?
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2021.08.01 03:09 Wuffer-floofer Having an issue with fps in Bf1 , Any pointers ?
So here are my specs
- Ryzen 5 3600 @ 4.4Ghz
- 32Gb G.Skill Ram @ 3600Mhz
- Gtx 1080ti
- Asus ROG B450-F Gaming 2
I play at 1080p and my Fps somehow at the start of the match would be leveling around 146-152 Fps (With Limiter) and then in intense fighting areas would drop to 80s along with fps being an avg of 90-100 on the ground. And Oddly my Gpu and Cpu Usage is around 54% ... Ive beeen screwing around with the dx11 and dx12 settings and i only see similar performance with more gpu usage going to the 70%s
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Thanks in advance!
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I’ve had my blood glucose under fairly strict control for the past two months (was diagnosed in April). And for the past two months I’ve missed my period. Before diagnosis my periods came like clockwork at the end of the month. Did anyone else experience menstrual irregularity when bringing their blood glucose under control? And did everythig go back to normal eventually?
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