2021.09.27 20:35 hiibrzxx King Von x Cyraq Type Beat - Prime Time
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2021.09.27 20:35 karl_popper Girl (21F) with BF sending me (27M) strong mixed signals?
Background: So there's this girl (21F) at my local cafe I (27M) found ~extremely~ attractive, and we'd just small talked a handful of times.
Wind back a few weeks and I'm walking down the street with my headphones on. I see her sitting down eating lunch and she shoots me a wave. I take that as an invite to go over and start chatting. Turns out we got along pretty well outside of her work and we chatted for around 10 mins, before realising we both needed something from the same shop. So we went on a little shopping adventure together. Got my flirt on a little and grabbed her number at the end which she gave without hesitation.
I send her a message the following day saying I want to get to know her more and I want to grab a drink. A few hours later she says she has a BF unfortunately but she thinks I'm fun and thought it would be cool if we could be friends. I agree, but still thought it was odd since she was pretty flirty and gave her number which most girls with BFs wouldn't do. I took the friendship offer as a soft rejection and moved on mentally, albeit disappointed.
Fast forward a few days and she suprisingly sends me a message asking if I want to go for a walk, I oblige. We end up spending 4 hours together at the park chatting about random stuff and got along really well. I asked casually what her relationship with her BF was like and she tells me she's kind of dissatisfied and has been finding it boring living together through lockdown (in Australia). She also tells me they used to be in an open relationship when he went travelling for 2 years, and then closed it when he returned. She said they've been discussing reopening it again... (for context i'm super cool with this since I'm poly)
A few days later, she sends me an invite for another walk.. I push back her invite since I had something on but we went the following day. Spent a few hours that morning getting kind of cutesy with eachother, and she was warming her hands so I tested the waters by taking her hand and warming it... she didn't resist. I asked her if she's been thinking about her relationship status any further and she tells me she has actually and her and her BF are both kind of in agreement that they want an open relo, but she says he's hesitant because she's much more attractive than he is and is worried she will get her needs met and he won't. We acknowledge that this is a pretty unhealthy take and it's not a competition, and that jealousy is normal. She says he needs some more time to think about it. I say it's cool and no pressure. In this moment of tension I said "Let me know when your boyfriend let's me kiss you" and she responded by basically jumping in to my arms and hugging me quite affectionately... ? (dunno what this means), and then as we started walking she held my hand for a few seconds, and then pulled away (either through fear of being seen or grabbing it subconsciously..?) Anyway that was a big mixed signal.
After that we didn't chat at all for 5 days, I thought I would give her some space since we basically hung out 3 times in the first week we met. Today I asked if she wanted to grab a drink again, and she said she was busy studying that night but could hang out for like 30min? I said I'd rather spend more time with her and asked if she was free on the coming Friday. she said "she's not sure yet" but she's free any time to go for a morning walk.
Although I enjoyed our morning walks, obviously the morning has a connotation of being reserved for friendships and nights for more romance. So it seems like she wants to hang out with me, but only in a friendly context at the moment.
My question is what she wants from me, and why she's treating me like a friend whilst also simultaneously having gave me her number, hugged me, and held my hand. She's also told me a handful of times she gets on unusually well with me compared to others.
Question2: I want her really bad - am I being an asshole by trying to make moves on her while she's in a closed relo? Should I keep contacting her or cut her out?
Halp, I'm on an emotional rollarcoaster.
TLDR: girl that used to be in open relo, now closed, indicating she wants to open it, held my hand on a date but also acts like she only wants to be friends.
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2021.09.27 20:35 Bat_Short Best player to invest in? Have 70k budget
2021.09.27 20:35 Poke_Curt Check out my latest pokemon Q&A! This is the second one I've done! Leave a comment!
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2021.09.27 20:35 PringlestheBingles This guy visited the tunnel where Rickroll was filmed
2021.09.27 20:35 bonsailvr94 need iclicker ASAP !!
willing to buy an iclicker today or as soon as possible !! can meet up at the utc or anywhere on campus, need it for my bio class ! pls send reasonable offers :(
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2021.09.27 20:35 SnooBananas3968 Anyone interested?
2021.09.27 20:35 Huntery0 Daily Mumei #34 (@yula_4405)
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2021.09.27 20:35 OrionSoul Motoba from Himouto! Umaru-chan
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2021.09.27 20:35 photonsintime Sigma 18-35mm f/1.8 DC HSM Art Lens for Nikon F
This lens was heavily used indoor and outdoor but still works great. No scratches on the lenses although it could use a professional cleaning. Perfect optics. Aperture Range: f/1.8-16 Fast Constant Maximum Aperture Designed for APS-C-Sized Sensors 35mm Equivalent Focal Length: 27-52.5mm
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2021.09.27 20:35 PeanutX4000X It's my reddit Cake Day
2021.09.27 20:35 SodiumBoy7 India introduce's Blockchain to go paperless and make Exam results Tamper proof
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2021.09.27 20:35 SnafuSnack Using sugar lumps to savescum garden ticks?
Is it possible to savescum by forcing a tick via sugar lump, then load the file before you forced the tick, and repeat? Or does the sugar lump count + cool down not reset after loading?
I dont wanna risk a sugar lump incase its used up regardless of loading to before using it
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2021.09.27 20:35 andrew_a384 could anyone maybe explain what’s going on
2021.09.27 20:35 Octopuses_Rule [STEP] Step Raffle for Time Cruisers! - 123 spots @ $1 each
Raffle being stepped:
Raffle Total/Spots: $123 // 123 spots @ $1 each
Call spots? Y
Spot limit per person? N
Duration of spot limit? N/A
Description: Limited to paid participants of the Main raffle for the first 1 hour!
3 winners, 1 bot call, order of numbers is 1st,2nd,3rd.
1st -20 spots 2nd -13 spots 3rd - 8 spots
Payment required w/in 20 minutes of raffle filling.
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2021.09.27 20:35 The_Good_Negro Are there any subreddits of cats and dogs or just any animal being a dick? As well as being really wierd?
2021.09.27 20:35 Truth__Machine In NYC for CoinGeek Conference? Join the New York City Bitcoin SV Meetup
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2021.09.27 20:35 T-LJ2 I need help
So my younger sister has come out as Non binary.
I need to understand more about it as I find it confusing can anyone explain to me how it works, I don't mean to be rude I just need help understanding because anything related to gender is confusing to me even my own identification I find confusing.
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2021.09.27 20:35 WitheredMindset Growth mindset vs. wishful thinking
I (33yo) have been trying to get organized my whole life. I run late, I lose things, I fail to keep necessary records of all kinds, I don’t follow a budget, I routinely overdraw my accounts, I lock my keys in the car. My desk is covered with papers that were important once and maybe still are, and perpetually surrounded by half-sorted boxes. My email inboxes have thousands of unread messages.
It is not for lack of trying. My friend does not own a calendar and has never missed an appointment. OTOH, I have checklists to remind me where I keep all my checklists. I followed David Allen’s GTD system (albeit badly and intermittently) for many years, but then two years ago the complexity of my life increased and totally collapsed even that shred of control.
The added complexity came from starting to work my dream job. This job, neurodevelopmentally informed tutoring, has been all I have wanted to do since I was a kid and there have been many setbacks on the road to doing it. I love the work and it is the one thing on earth that I am very, very good at – not only in my estimation but based on the feedback of others. I am in a flow state and truly happy whenever I am working with my kids, and the rewards of seeing their progress are immeasurable.
Unfortunately working with kids is only a fraction of the job. Scheduling, emailing, filing, tax records, new client onboarding, and other “scutt work” is killing me. I am so bad at this that I’m at risk of not only bringing under my own business, but also doing serious harm to the business of the specialist who evaluates my students and writes their neurodevelopmental programs. I have been trying to build checklists and systems to get a handle of things, but they are always half-built which is worse than nothing, and I'm always putting out fires instead of getting ahead of the problem. If I had the option of paying a professional organizer or administrative assistant I would do so in a heartbeat, but I am barely able to make my rent.
I am quite bright, but I have just failed out of my third college in 12 years – this time because while frazzled with work I lost track of time and failed to engage with course material long enough to receive an administrative withdrawal. For some time, I’ve told people that I truly believe I have enough raw hours for all of my commitments – the issue isn’t time, it’s complexity.
I started my adult life with a strong growth mindset. Because my work I have tremendous appreciation for neuroplasticity, the reality of which I have seen first hand. I know that just because I am not naturally good at something doesn’t mean I can’t learn those skills.
But now, I think that is only true in an ideal and theoretical sense. Yes, I could learn to do the admin side of the job well enough to get by – but not in time, not before I damage my colleague’s reputation and livelihood. Theoretically, I could develop the organization and self-discipline to finish school - but if a three week stumble is enough to end the latest attempt I do not have the chance to improve over time.
At what point is a growth mindset just wishful thinking? How can I build a life that honestly recognizes my weaknesses and harnesses my strengths? Should I be making my peace with a fast food career and practicing contentment or is there some path I haven’t yet explored?
(If you are thinking that I should get evaluated for ADHD, there is an 18 month waiting list in my area. I don't have that time.)
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2021.09.27 20:35 TreadLighty77 [MOD] Universal Wasteland Expansion Has Been Updated; "UC Warring Factions/The Dominion" Update
Newly released update for UWE. This update was almost entirely devoted to the creation of and fleshing out of a new emergent faction, alongside a new collapse mechanism for the United Cities, as a whole. Instead of collapsing entirely, with the fall of Tengu, the UC will now fall into a "successor war" of three "UC Warring Factions" for the open emperor's seat and the power that would entail. Waiting in the wings will be a "far-off trading partner" of the UC, "The Dominion," whom have come to the landmass to "get what they are owed" after the collapse of one of their money sources.
You can find "UC Warring Faction/The Dominion" specific changenotes, within the following Steam Discussions: "UC Warring Factions" Specific Changenotes
"The Dominion" Specific Changenotes
¡UWE IS ON THE EXPERIMENTAL BUILD VERSION OF KENSHI!
^(Player must also be playing on the experimental build[Kenshi version 1.0.55], as of UWE version 12, released 6/26/2021. Most, if not all players, will need to also import their save into the new version of UWE.) ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ All general changes in this update of Universal Wasteland Expansion are listed below:
2021.09.27 20:35 Sazasti I have a problem with badges notifications. iOS 15-iPhone 13pro. They're not showing, but I have everything correctly set. Have anybody same problem ?
2021.09.27 20:35 Justo135 How My Wipe Usually Goes as a Solo - Rust Console Edition Ps5
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2021.09.27 20:35 Slightly_Skewed Photographer captures Falcon9 jet thrusts as rocket separates from Space X Inspiration4 payload
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2021.09.27 20:35 majstortesa Thank me later 😇
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2021.09.27 20:35 informalbabble New twitfer pic
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