2021.10.16 10:55 superzack2001 Hmmm
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2021.10.16 10:55 CeliCat92 Give me a break
This is my first legit reddit post, I feel like I have no where else to air my thoughts. I just need to vent this because it is driving me absolutely crazy and nothing seems to help. I’ve been completely alone in this matter and I’m fed up.
So some background:
29 F living in Victoria Australia. I have had bad mental health in the past but after meeting my partner in 2016 my life seemed to turn around until March 2020.
I work an unrewarding city job that I spent 4 years of University to get into to be treated like complete shit despite working extremely hard and putting in 110% effort everyday. During March when the COVID pandemic hit Australia, my entire team was stood down at work and majority of us went unpaid for months. I later found out some of our team had been rehired and paid while I wasn’t allowed to look for work due to my contract. This was a bit of a blessing of disguise since I needed a break from the job as we are only allowed to take 10 days leave max every 6 months and I was exhausted and overworked.
Eventually we were all taken back on in a working from home situation (another blessing as I didn’t have to deal with the exhausting commute).
I decided after watching the land market for quite some time that my partner and I should buy some land as prices had plummeted during COVID. We managed to buy some land and choose a builder. We settled our land in December 2020. Life felt great, I was able to keep my income and work from home, we had secured some land and paid a house deposit.
Then Jan 2021 rolls around…
Firstly our builder assigns us a client liaison representative that clearly doesn’t give a shit about her job. It was a nightmare getting our building contract settled as this woman would constantly send us wrong documents to sign, miss things we paid for in our contract and just generally be a terrible person with no care what so ever that her job deals with 100,000s dollars of money. She would set appointments incorrectly, over charge us, take things off our contract that we had added. The list is never ending.
Eventually we got to the stage of our house build where we could pick the colours, tiles and carpet - all the things that should be fun. When we got to our appointment, the liaison woman had again missed things on our contract and we had to wait for them to be fixed.
During April we were giving a site start date of our build. We were so happy until the liaison woman told us we had to have some fence removed. We thought oh yeah no worries, we will just introduce ourselves to the neighbours and let them know we want to remove some fence panels from our shared boundary. The guy and his wife were not inviting at all when we met them, only wanted to know how we could inconvenience them for trying to build a house on our land we just bought. As doing any construction work next door to them would compromise their security of their home. Mind you this was in a new estate where there were currently streets of new houses been built left right and centre.
They gave us a list of demands which included, leaving a gate post in tact, not removing any panels at all and having the builders work around them / their fence and their timeframes.. the liaison woman told us she would check with the building team and work out a negation to get things started. A week goes by, I’ve sent her ignored emails, I’ve tried ringing her with no response. To eventually ONE month later her sending us a half assed picture of how the gate post will be left in place. Obviously the neighbours weren’t happy about this because all their other demands weren’t met. She also tacked on that we would need written consent from these neighbours in order to do any works at all on the fence. As you can imagine this got absolutely no where with them.
So another month goes by, work is as shit as ever, unpaid overtime (in the office at this point too), my mental health is starting to decline and all I want to do is sell the land we bought and get out of this mess.
We continue to go back and forth with these neighbours, they tell us to change house plans so we no longer need to build on the boundary, move the existing crossover, even build a smaller house! I’m completely fed up at this point. I’m locked in a contract with the land developer that states I cannot sell my land without a house on it. My builder refuses to get involved and it’s starting to cost us in delays that we have no control over.
It wasn’t until May that I received a phone call from our land developer (apparently he had first rang the neighbours) to try and come to an understanding between us so we could build on the boundary. Except he came out guns blazing at me like I was doing the wrong thing asking them to take down some fence panels temporarily so we could build a garage on the shared boundary that was required to go there due to this guys developer requirements!! Apparently they had told his guy earlier that we were trying to compromise their security be doing any building works next door.. once he heard our side of the story he fully supported us and said to let him know how he could help. I was really upset by this and being a work I had to go home for the day because I was crying in the office after this phone call.
A week goes by and the neighbours decided to give us consent as long as we put a temporary fence up with a shade cloth on their end to cover the gap in their fence. We agreed to this and paid a fencer to get the job done. The day before the fencer was due to attend the lot, the neighbour emails us a revoke to consent as they didn’t understand that a temporary fence was temporary…
I tried negotiating with the builder, the developer guy who rang me fully blocked my number mind you after he realised what he did on the phone - so he was no help, the council, dispute centres, free Lagan advice EVERYTHING! And no one could or would help me.
I’m at my wits end at this stage. Work is stressful, I was starting to get very sick and depression had completely taken over me again after so many years of being in control of my emotions. I had no other choice then get a lawyer involved. When we met the lawyer she told us it was an easy case she’d have it sorted in a few weeks for us.
A month went by, and at this stage of hearing nothing from the lawyer, my mental health had completely gone. I was suicidal, crying constantly, having nightmares and panic attacks and sent home crying from work multiple times. It was a this stage I decided that I needed to see a psychologist and get myself back together. I took a month off work, started anti depressants and started seeing a psychologist. Things were starting to turn around for me. I was getting better, my boss had informed me that I had been promoted at work after 2 years working my ass off and my now fiancé proposed to me. It was like the stress of the house wasn’t even affecting me because I was happy again. We had the lawyer on it, she was working on getting consent.
August rolls around and I start to decline again, we managed to get consent everything was ready to go. We spent up until September finalising everything and making payments.
Then the Melbourne construction ban hit us. 1 week before our site start was to begin, which caused our fencer to pull out of the job and leave us with no fencer, or site start date. Overwhelmed with stress I put finding a fencer with our lawyer while we waited out the ban.
Last week we were given a new date of October 18, the lawyer booked a fencer in for today to have it removed and we were meant to be all ready. Today I drove past and saw that the fence was still standing. After ringing the fencer he told me he didn’t have time to do it today… I was so confused because we had been told it was paid for and was happening but the fencer told me that he wasn’t paid by the lawyer and he was not doing our job. Being a weekend I can’t contact the builder or lawyer to cancel our site start date and I’m at a complete loss.
It just doesn’t seem to end and I don’t know what to do anymore. All I want to do is sell the land and be done with this stress but I can’t. I am so disappointed in people and can’t believe this has even gotten this far over two panels of fence that I can’t remove myself, I have to rely on other people to co ordinate together and get done, which they just can’t seem to do!
I’m sorry this is so long 😥 it’s just eating me up inside and my partner doesn’t want to talk about it because it’s so depressing.
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2021.10.16 10:55 Prestigious_Smell_22 This man claims to be Jesus. Now I’m wondering does his aura indicate anything Devine?
2021.10.16 10:55 Valigom I don't know how to pose in pictures
So yesterday i went out with my friends for my birthday party, and we took lots of pictures but in ebery single one there was something wrong, somewhere my smile, somewhere my arms were too tense, and the worse is when i had took a perfect pose but my face expression wasnt matching my body pose. HELP. What can i do?
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2021.10.16 10:55 hatted_boy Monte Carlo Dry Start Question
2021.10.16 10:55 daniel-mca Can someone explain what the ideal end game would be regarding anitwork?
First let me apologise for my ignorance. I'm not against antiwork and not for working the way the system is right now. Just trying to get more information so I can form a more educated opinion.
From what I can see some posts are about are about working the way you would like to work and some are about not working at all. Realistically, what would the ideal outcome be for you?
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2021.10.16 10:55 jurschys chicken fp?
so if anyone remembers i posted about a week ago about going to a bbq. well the bbq is today and i'll be eating chicken mostly. how soon will fp* kick in if something is wrong? i wanna know how long the fp window is so i can actually have a decent time after that 😅
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2021.10.16 10:55 Here4AWhile03 25 [F4A] Easy On Me
2 days na akong LSS dito sa single ni mamshie Adele. Hahahahahahahahaha! Di ako broken or anything pero mas iba siguro yung feels kapag may nanakit na sayo. Saktan niyo nga ako. Sirain niyo buhay ko. Ganern. Charot! Kausapin niyo lang ako. Bored ako. 🤣
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2021.10.16 10:55 simonchetho only deletes mail sometimes
Quite often when i select an email hit move to trash then refresh and it has not been moved to trash. I can sometimes do this multiple times. Max i have tried is moving to trash 3 times.
Anybody know of a fix?
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2021.10.16 10:55 deanro1 Will Adding More Modems Cause Issues to My network?
Hi guys.. I have 2 modem at home: a modem-router for internet and another modem for phone only. I'm thinking of adding 1 or 2 more modems to my network for a total of 3 - 4 modems (with only one being for phone use only). Will this cause any issues?
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2021.10.16 10:55 SpicyUnderwearBamboo (2014 Sxt 2.4) Engine Splash Shield and Closeout Panel Bolts
I’m looking for an OEM bolt part numbers or ones that will work for them, I haven’t gone up under the car yet but from the videos I watched they show around 10 bolts holding up the splash shield and I couldn’t find a video on the closeout panel to show what it needs to be secured with. I hit a piece of debris in the road at highway speeds almost 2 years ago and the parts have finally fully deteriorated and need to be replaced, I’m unsure if the damage was enough to mess up any mounting hardware which is why I would like to have the part numbers on hand just in case.
Any help is appreciated TYIA
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2021.10.16 10:55 it-is-my-cake-day Any tips on opening the ceiling fan light dome?
Turning out to be an impossible thing as there is no way to hold it open (dome shape) and I’m at the verge it breaking it open. It appear to be stuck and I need to replace the light bulb inside it. I looked up in YouTube where one guy suggested using a strong tape on two sides and use to rotate it open but it appears to be jammed. Thank you.
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2021.10.16 10:55 Atlanticancameos NVG?
| Started playing cod just as s12: "Going Dark" ended and was heartbroken as I couldn't get the Price skin with the cool NVG's. Is there any way I can get it or is it impossible now?|
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2021.10.16 10:55 Actuary_Puzzled I'm 26, I had last night one of the worst nightmares I partly remember. I would love for some north on how consumption of marijuana may have influeced it
So, last night I had such a horrible nightmare that made me want to ask for advice on Redditz which is lately my favorite source for some identical experiences tips.
The thing is: I'm not sure if my consumption of weed may have caused it, also because a lot of people say they don't dream when they smoke weed.
I should note I'm unusually anxious as I have a kidney stone and I have no idea how much pain it can xause me.
For me it happens, and sometimes are those really vivid nightmares that bring back fears from late childhood and other part of my life.
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2021.10.16 10:55 EraldosKitchen Red Pickled Onions!
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