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Long-term relationship has a >50% of ending in the next three months, and I don't know how I should behave from now till then

2021.11.29 15:51 RelentlessGayness Long-term relationship has a >50% of ending in the next three months, and I don't know how I should behave from now till then

I (22M) have been in a loving, committed long-term relationship with my girlfriend (21F), for the past 3.5 years. During this period, we have done our fair share of in-person and long-distance – she goes to university in the US while I go to the UK. We spent a year back in our home country last year due to the pandemic, and our relationship has been going strong. To date, the distance did not drive a wedge between us or make us distant in any way. We love each other a lot, and our feelings have only grown stronger while being apart.
As per all long-distance couples, we agreed to see it through because we were expecting a common end-point where we would be together again. The original plan was for us to return to our home country to work upon completion of our undergraduate/postgraduate studies, which was meant to be in 1.5 years (mid-2023). In the meantime, we would spend time travelling across the Atlantic whenever possible.
The main issue is that my girlfriend is holding a dual-citizenship (American and that of our home country). However, citizens of our home country are only allowed to have 1 citizenship at the time they turn 22 – this leaves my girlfriend with about 8 months before she has to choose between her citizenships, although the timeline is realistically only 3-4 months more because she'll have to make arrangements with the country whose citizenship she will be giving up to get her visa and passport renewals sorted out. Currently, she is leaning towards retaining her American citizenship, due to the more favourable job market and greater career prospects. I understand her position completely, and want her to make her decision based on what she feels is best for her.
Typically, this wouldn't be a problem for most couples; however, upon completion of my university studies, I will be returning to my home country where I will be working for the government in sensitive capacities. I have consulted HR on this, and while they did not explicitly shut off the idea of inter-nationality marriages, the message was clear that such marriages are highly discouraged due to security concerns. This created in an ultimatum – should my girlfriend retain her American citizenship, our relationship has to end. Currently, she has told me that she is inclined to keep her American citizenship. I want what's best for her, and am not going to restrict her choices in any way. However, should this be the case, it spells the end of my relationship.
My girlfriend has asked me to continue as I have always been for the past three years as if nothing is about to happen, and I'm finding it very difficult to do that. Knowing that I may lose all of this in a matter of months, especially after all the effort I've invested in keeping this relationship going, sucks so much. Because of this, it's been hard trying to act like everything is fine and dandy, and as if nothing is wrong. I'm still committed to her, but I've recently disengaged more from her, and been increasingly emotionally distant in anticipation of getting hurt in the future. I've been subconsciously preparing myself for the worst and want to try to minimise the hurt I will feel should the breakup happen. I don't know whether what I'm feeling is valid, whether what I'm doing is right, and what I should be feeling now. Anyone here has been in a similar situation, where their relationship was (potentially) on a clock and they had to figure out how to feel and act towards their partner?
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2021.11.29 15:51 ZeroRozuMagi Hey you! Go for it! Try dating!

But don’t let it make you toxic. If it’s affecting your mental health, take a break! Don’t let bad dating experiences make you bitter, and please don’t tell new matches about them!
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I tried to stay positive for a couple of days. It helped. We got a dog today and i was super happy.
The moment i start feeling a bit sad i hate myself more and get negative thoughts and in the end it suddenly turns into the feeliing of killing myself. Please help. Do i try to stay away from all negative thoughts again ?
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2021.11.29 15:51 Zylbath How come that the rate of scientific/economic/human development is so different in history?

Hello, I wonder what are the factors that made the rate of development in science, economy and humankind so different between the far past and the recent past. For thousands of years, the progress was only little, maybe rather within the borders of agriculture, smithery etc. But (and maybe that is only subjectively) the changes over thousands of years seem to be so little compared to the recent past, where very big changes happened. I'm aware that that could have only based on what was before, but to me it seems that humankind could have development to what we have today way far earlier in history if they had the same rate of development. Or am I just not seeing it clearly?
Was "development" not a "thing" back then, so that people didn't really have the idea or farsightedness to transform and improve things?
Thanks for any ideas or explanations, I am sure, I am lacking some fundamental thing here. That is why I am asking.
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